write a declaration of work boundaries. here's mine.
It's just a job
- My manager
Dear Reader,
I choose to not work evenings or weekends.
Even if:
- I woke up late.
- I procrastinated a lot.
- An exec messages me at 6:01pm.
- It's crunch time, like annual planning season.
Further, I choose to make time for the following most days (workday be damned):
- Sleeping eight hours, or napping.
- Exercising.
- Meditating.
- Eating when I'm hungry.
When push comes to shove and work puts pressure on these boundaries:
- I can work with my boss to prioritize and/or renegotiate expectations.
- I can wake up earlier. If I start working at 7am, that gives me 5 focus hours in the morning before meetings in the afternoon. Thanks James for this point.
- I can work later, but not after dinner or 7pm.
- I can quit, and I can find a new job, or enjoy a sabbatical for a bit.
Signed,
Rishi Dhanaraj

P.S. This declaration is right for me. I'm not saying it's right for you.
Also see:
write a declaration of happiness. here’s mine.
Dear Reader, I choose to be happy now. That’s right, I’m declaring it. * I will not wait for my senses to be pleased to be happy. * I will not wait for people to make me happy. * I will not wait for status to make me happy. * I will not wait

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